When to Leave a Relationship (And: The Art of Letting Go) – with Jana Schuberth

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Inside this episode Jana Schuberth talks about knowing when to leave a relationship, how one brave change can trigger an avalanche of progress in your life, and the huge misconception that keeps women from peak sexual pleasure.

Jana is the founder of Alive in Berlin, a global community and conference series around personal transformation. She is also a foreign exchange trader, a digital nomad, an expert in behavioral change and self-mastery and a former Tony Robbins results coach.

Episode Highlights

• 2:15 – What is a digital nomad, anyway?
• 8:34 – The surprising reason Jana left her 12-year marriage and how she built up the strength to do so
• 10:30 – The unexpected true sources of stability (they’re not what you’d guess)
• 19:28 – How Jana turned her fears into her compass and her failure into an asset
• 29:37 – Why we hold onto things that don’t serve us and why surrender is “freakin’ scary” if done right
• 33:36 – Is your partner using honesty as a weapon? Learn the right and wrong way to tell the truth
• 39:42 – How to know sooner when to end your romantic relationship
• 47:41: The psychology of securities trading and why more women should do it
• 52:37: Find out how healthy sexual relationships help us be more expressed in our careers
• 53:00 – The huge misconception that keeps women from peak sexual pleasure
• Related: Download my free 22-page e-book, 9 Mistakes That Kill Your Love Life and Keep You Single

1. Favorite book for women?

2. Favorite self-care hack?

  • Spending time with my man ;-)

3. Most valuable advice you’ve received and who gave it to you?

  • One of my early coaches and mentors Susan Hyatt once said to me: “What people say or do, says something about them, not you.” (Tweet this) This has stuck with me and always helps me refrain from judgement and anger.

4. Female CEO or thought leader you admire?

  • There are so many!! If I have to name just one, it would probably be Brené Brown. She is the perfect mix between humble, smart, authentic, funny and vulnerable.

5. One thing you’d tell your 5 years younger self?

  • I think I would probably answer this at any age: “It’s all gonna be okay. Really. You’ve got this, go with your gut!”

Resources Mentioned

The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer
• David Deida and his book Intimate Communion
Michaela Boehm
Tony Robbins Results Coaching
• Also check out: The Love Bootcamp for Alpha Women – my free 13-day course

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